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Life Stories

There is power in stories of life transformation.  It's really what God is most interested in.  At KGF, we celebrate the work God is doing in each one of us, and hope that you will be encouraged and challenged in your own walk as you read, listen to and watch some stories from this church family.

 

Thursday, 05 December 2013 20:05

Julie B.

 

It is such a blessing to walk with the Lord. To look back at my life now, I don’t know how I would have survived. I remember all too well what a mess I made of my life and am reminded every time I tumble off the path. Guilt and shame are not what we should carry through life. Though your sins are like scarlet, they shall be as white as snow... Isaiah 1:18 One of the many gifts the Lord has for us. There is no life worth living outside that road chosen by our Heavenly Father.

I was loved by two peaceful, warm hearted parents who had faith but no relationship with God. I came away with an acceptance of any scripture brought to my attention. I still believe my faith is that of a child’s. Read me His story, I love every word.  

Growing up in a logging town in northern BC it was easy to find trouble. Trouble was fun! Alcohol was a way of life. It was what we witnessed growing up and looked forward to in our teens and young adult lives. When I was introduced to a better life turning mine over to the Lord, I feared I wouldn’t be able to drink and have fun anymore. I refer to that moment of choice as simply toppling off the fence. I think I landed on my head because it still took another year or so before I realized that a simple prayer wasn’t going to cut it. I actually had to make a decision. That I did, 17 years ago. It was then that the Lord truly showed me a better life. He changed my perspective on life and freed me from the bondage of unhealthy choices. It certainly wasn’t anything I did. He accepted me as I was and continually loves me today with all my imperfections. A love like His makes you want to be a better person. The rewards of following His will for your life far outweigh our misguided perceptions of what we think our lives should be. There is nothing in this world that could match the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, which will guard our hearts and minds in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:7

Thanks to God, I will be celebrating 27 years of marriage to a man who has also grown to love the Lord. Without God’s presence in our marriage the rocky mountains would have been too treacherous to bear. I am so grateful that He chose me while my children were young. I have 2 sons and 1 daughter who have all committed their lives to the Lord. I know that although they may sway from His lead at times in their lives, He has hold of them and loves them more than I could imagine. They do keep me on my knee’s I might add, but any reason to pray is a good opportunity to spend time with the Father.

I am looking forward to this next chapter with my new family at KGF. Already I feel accepted and loved as God loves his children. My favourite scripture changes all the time; there are so many good ones! Today Proverbs 3:5-6 is one I do lean upon: "Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."

 

Thursday, 05 December 2013 13:51

Kelsey

I grew up in a home that was loving and supportive; one that went to church on Easter and Christmas Eve. I always knew God existed and that He loved more than anyone else, but I didn't know much of the Bible until my teenage years. I met two friends in school who came from Christian homes; every Monday they would tell me what they learned at church and I would go home to read it in my Bible. Shortly after I began attending a youth group down the street and my knowledge of God, Jesus and the Bible grew. In school, I was strong academically and had many friends. While I should have been happy with my life, instead I was surrounded by a heavy cloud of darkness.

At the age of 13, I was diagnosed with depression and was at my lowest point. I was prescribed anti-depressants to balance the neurotransmitters in my brain, and within a week became a different person. It was as though I had been living in black and white, and now my world had color and dimension. I had come to life. I remember my mom crying as I walked out of a room laughing, because it had been so long since she heard my laugh. I felt joy and happiness again, however it felt tainted since it came from a pill.

I continued growing in the Lord throughout my middle and high school years. God protected me from rebellion that many of my friends got involved in, and I choose to go to Capernwray Bible School in New Zealand. Those were 6 months of in-depth Bible teaching and an opportunity to meet friends who would remain faithful and true ever since. I returned home to Calgary to go to University and in this time God healed me of my depression. To this day, I no longer need to take medication and am grateful to God for setting me free. God has blessed my life in beautiful ways; forgiving my sins and offering an abundant life to live, being able to marry the man I had specifically prayed for and being able to share the good news of Jesus Christ to others.

Thursday, 05 December 2013 13:48

Jordan

My life with Jesus began when my parents introduced me to Him at a young age, which is when I prayed a prayer to invite Jesus to come into my life. I was raised in a home with Christian beliefs, morals, and disciplines, as my dad was a pastor and my parents were strong Christ followers. Growing up with three brothers, I was blessed, supported, and had Godly examples before me, yet Christ did not become a real part of my life until my later teenage years.

Growing up, I internally struggled with God and being obedient to Him. Outwardly, I followed the rules and fit in well in the Christian community. I did all the right things, and yet my heart was hard towards God and I resented Him. I perceived God as a rule maker and had no desire or passion to get to know Him personally. My selfish attitudes and independence completely conflicted with what He wanted for my life. I was lost, empty and had no purpose in life. Despite my low points, I am thankful to God for my family, who were there to support and love me, despite my apathy, and to continue to demonstrate God’s love to me.

Jumping forward; in my high school years, I had success in sports and excelled in basketball. It was my passion and what helped me gain confidence. After having limped through graduation academically, I was looking for my next steps. I decided to go to a bible school in Sweden and couldn’t imagine how Christ would work in my life over the next year.

Through being independent from my family and having to make spiritual choices on my own, it was during that time that I was humbled. I had to make a decision; live my life for my own purposes and desires, or follow Christ. I chose Christ! I experienced his peace and it was as though I massive burden had been lifted off from trying to do everything in life on my own and by my own strength. Through a close group of guy friends, 9 months of biblical teaching, and having my slate cleaned by Christ, I came home a different person! I attribute everything in my life to Christ and everything I am today is because of Him. I am humbled by the grace He has shown me. I am blessed to be married to my wife Kelsey and we are thankful every day for Christ’s sacrifice for our freedom!

Thursday, 05 December 2013 13:45

Jeremy

Jesus is my reason is for living. He gives me strength, he gives me hope, and he gives me happiness.

As a teen, I was quite involved with church but have not had any great involvement since. My wife and I felt connected to KGF since the first time we walked through the front doors.

I love how Mike knows the people in his congregation. I love that our church totally gets the idea of "community" and cares for one another. I love seeing the birth and death announcements, because it makes me feel like these people are a part of my family. I love that KGF is responsible with its finances. I love that KGF's members are generous do-gooders. I like how we are a church that does not get caught up in the small stuff, but instead accepts and loves everyone. As Mike says, I like that we are not fancy.

I want to learn more about Jesus and I want to be more like Jesus; I want to belong to a community that will help me achieve this goal.

Thursday, 05 December 2013 13:42

Lauren

My husband and I have been attending Kelowna Gospel Fellowship for about one year, but only in the past 6 months have we made KGF our home.

The idea of being a family and community-oriented church is what initially attracted us to the church, and with the recent birth of our daughter, Poppy, the idea of family became that much more appealing to us. We want Poppy to be surrounded by people who will support her walk with God. We really embrace the philosophy of “it takes a village to raise a child” - we want KGF to be the village that helps raise Poppy.

Likewise, we want to encourage and support other children and families to live the good life, love Jesus, and be the best they can for God’s purposes. My husband and I love that our church is multigenerational and it is our hope and prayer that we can be a part of the KGF family for many generations.

Thursday, 05 December 2013 13:33

Trevor

I was raised in a home with two loving parents that didn’t attend church but I remember going to Sunday School as a kid and learning about Jesus. I didn’t give it much thought until many years later. I was a young adult a year out of university and newly engaged when friends invited me to church. My friends showed me that a life that had Jesus as the center was fulfilling and a way I wanted to live and start my family.

Shortly before I was married, I asked Jesus into my life and decided to make him a part of my life. A month later, while I was talking with our Pastor and he offered to pray with me again and a year later I decided to express my faith through Baptism.

The years following have not been easy and many times I feel I fall short in my walk with Jesus. I am thankful for the people he has placed in my life that have loved me and shown me “Jesus with skin on” even when I feel those shortcomings. I feel blessed by a great family and a wife who has been my greatest teacher on God’s ways. I am grateful that our God is a loving and patient god that is ever forgiving.

Thursday, 05 December 2013 13:19

Peggy

I was raised in a home with parents that took us to church every Sunday and camp every summer. God was a part of our home like an uncle. He was active but not the center. I think my parents did the best they could but like all of us, they often fell short of putting and keeping God the center of our family.

When I was 10, I went to camp for the 7th year in a row but the first time without my parents. It was that year that I made the decision to accept Christ in my life. My life continued on but nothing really changed in my day to day life. I had always gone to church and youth groups and still did. My final year of high school I even began to help lead my youth group. When I graduated I went to Bible College and it was there that I really began to cement my beliefs and finally began to understand what all those Bible verses and stories began to mean to me and my life.

When I met my husband I had made the decision to not live my life with God. I knew He would always be there for me so I decided that I would make time for him after I lived my life and had some fun. When we decided to get married I knew I wanted to have a Christian wedding and wanted to begin my life for God again. Shortly after we were married, the Pastor of our church asked me to baptized. I was baptized as an infant and never felt the need to be rebaptized. I told him at the time I didn’t feel God required me to be rebaptized and if I ever felt God calling me to be rebaptized I would. Almost 2 years later to the day, after much study and prayer, I got out of my car on a bright Sunday morning and heard the words “If he asks today, Go.” I had never felt the words of God so clear in my life. So of course when the pastor made the call that day at the end of church, I obeyed and a week later I was rebaptized.

Over the years we have gone through a lot of trials and testing. We have often made choices that I am sure God has been disappointed with but He keeps calling us back to Him and we keep coming back, sometimes running, sometimes with our heads hung in shame. I am constantly reminding myself that this is a journey with many potholes and distractions. Thankfully God has given us many good friends who have become role models and mentors. They have loved us and supported us with a love that can only be given because of their love for God.

Our desire is to see our children see Christ in us, imperfect as we are, but loved and forgiven. Our hope is that God would draw them to Him as He has done with us. I want them to know God as their Father, not just an uncle we invite for Sunday dinner.

Thursday, 05 December 2013 13:15

Millie

I was not a Christian until 2003. I feel I was a pretty good woman, a hard working nurse, a good mother, a good wife. I thought it was enough to be just these things. I don’t think I even realized that I needed more.

My husband of 46 years died Feb. 3, 2003 from cancer. On that morning, two Christian co-workers of mine come to the hospital and prayed at his bedside for hours. He was in a coma, he was not a believer. He was a good man, good father, good husband. He was 62 years old. My heart was ice. How could this happen? As I listened to my friends pray, though, I felt a peace. How could that be?

My wonderful husband died that evening. The two Christian co-workers, Audrey and Simone were not asked by me to come to the hospital to pray. When I asked them after why they called to to see if they could come, they said they felt compelled to. Questions I asked: Why did I feel peace? Is there more?

Audrey lost her husband to cancer a year later 2004. Simone, Audrey and I are now really close friends. All retired now. We often get together for prayer and parise. Now I know that I have the ‘more’ I didn’t even knew I needed.

I became stronger, less fearful. So interested in finding out everything I could about my beloved Saviour Jesus Christ. I felt I wanted to scream my love for God from everywhere to tell people that in my good but empty life before Christ, I had finally found ‘more.’ That although I didn’t know where God was, He know where I was all the time.

Isaiah 41:10, “Fear not for I am with thee; do not be dismayed for I am thy God; I will strengthen thee; I will help thee; yea I will up hold thee with the right hand of my righteousness.”

Thursday, 05 December 2013 13:06

Darrell

After almost 42 years I decided to go public and let everyone know I am proud to be known as a Christian or what I like to be is a follower of Jesus Christ. (That was almost 10 years ago now.)

I grew up like 80% of the people in North America. I knew there was a God out there but I never followed him nor tried to be like him. In fact I don’t remember even having a reason to go to church other than the odd wedding or funeral. As I was growing up I had my share of trouble including some run-ins with the law. I felt I only had to be accountable to me for my actions and what I did didn’t affect anybody else, little did I know the affect we have on the people around us (especially those who love and care for us). Even back then I now recognize that the Lord was watching and guiding me. I didn’t give Him the time of day let alone the time I should have for a relationship. I continue to share stories with friends from my past and understand even more as time passes He was there watching over me all that time. How could I think that I was ever really in control on my own life?

I was brought up with the understanding if I lived a good life everything would be OK and I would go to heaven, as I got older I thought this was still true, I always thought it was me who was in control of my life. I did what made me happy. Even after I got married I still did what made me happy and as many of you are aware, this is not the way a good relationship works. As the years passed our marriage was failing and this life I was living was taking its toll on our family. I think I still had blinders on as life was still about me and not my family nor how to fix it.

My wife, Julie had already accepted the Lord into her life and was going to church. Julie had asked me several times if I wanted to go with her however I always had something to do. Finally one day I made my way into the church. I said to myself this was okay and I found that the message was directed right at me(now I understand how God works). I made it to church once in a while and it seemed every time I went the message had something to do with my life. Julie had found a church to call home and our 3 children were now getting involved with the kids programs thanks to the invitation of our neighbors. I started attending a little more often and these messages continued to be directed more to my life. One day I went for a walk and asked that Jesus Christ to forgive me for my sins and to be my Savior, that was 10 years ago. In my heart at the time I felt this was a private relationship between Jesus and myself so I didn’t tell anyone, not even Julie. I know now that this was a turning point in my life and a time to rejoice and share.

As they say the rest is history. My Life did not change immediately however with the support from this church family and the ongoing messages from the Pastors (which so many still continue to speak directly to me) I started to notice subtle changes in my life. It felt great! With God in control everything seemed to improve! Our marriage was in recovery mode and we were once again on the same road with the same goals. I count my blessings now, a restored marriage, 3 great kids and a good job.

Now my life is not perfect but I wouldn’t trade my life with anybody else’s and I know I wouldn’t have all of this if I didn’t have Jesus Christ in my life. I don’t understand why some things happen and I still have lots of questions but I do know, God will guide me through my life no matter what, all I need to do is; Be a follower of Jesus Christ.

Thursday, 05 December 2013 12:19

Stacie

I grew up in the small town of Creston in the Kootenay’s. Although my parents were divorced when I was quite young, I always knew I was loved and valued. After graduating high school I worked in an institute for people who have developmental disabilities, to save money to travel and go to college. It was there that I met some amazing friends who introduced me to God. Up until this point I was taught that religion was for those who needed a crutch. It wasn’t something I thought I needed and I certainly was never introduced to a personal God named Jesus.

But one night at a Christian rock concert I was face with that very amazing person. Jesus. Within a week I had been given a bible, read and read and read, asked questions and made the life changing decision to follow Christ with my whole heart and life. I have never looked back. Since then I have pursued theatre in college, done missionary work all over North America and Europe with a missions group called YWAM, had three wonderful kids and one terrible marriage. I have gotten a degree in Social Work, remarried an amazing man in my husband Bernie and gained three great kids along the way.

No matter where I have gone however, and no matter what I have done, the Lord has been with me all the way. He is my strength in the difficult times and my joy in the triumphant ones. The Lord has given me several life verses to keep me on track. “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not in your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him and He will make your path straight.” Proverbs 3:5-6 and “He has shown you, O man, what is good. And what does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.” Micah 6:8